In the United States, we have the highest incarceration rate with about 2.3 million people in prison. This has grown into such an industry that CNBC is running a special on this topic entitled “Billions Behind Bars: Inside America’s Prison Industry.” Be shocked with this statistic:
“One out of 100 American adults is behind bars – while a stunning one out of 32 is on probation, parole or in prison.” CNBC, October 11, 2011
Even more shocking is that many more are living their life imprisoned by their inaction and inability to do something meaningful in their living existence. Even though we are not behind metal bars, we put ourselves behind mental and spiritual ones.
Too many drudge through life like it is a chore.
We get distracted by pretty objects. Then, the fascination passes, and there is an emptiness within.
We engage activities that deliver bursts of satisfaction. Then, the joy fades, and no meaning is left in our actions.
We grind on with hollow objects and unfulfilled actions.
Life is not a chore. Life is not in a box in what it delivers or in what we can think, feel, and do.
- Think about what keeps us in a mindset of being imprisoned in our own lives:
- Buying things, believing those things deliver happiness
- Buying bigger things, believing big is always better
- Digging a financial hole with the walls beginning to cave in all around
- Thinking small or petty, reasoning that trivial thoughts keep us safe
- Ignoring our inner calling, believing it is too risky or just an irrational voice
- Adopting a limiting or negative attitude, thinking it is a protective shell against disappointment
Whatever it is, we forget that the gift to us is our life, and we need to unbox our gift without self-imposed bars or barriers. I realize we all have certain limits, whether it is time, money, or certain abilities. However, I do know we all have capabilities and talents that are underutilized and unengaged.
So, here is another way to think about the question – are you living a life sentence? Complete the following sentence.
I will live my life embracing and exhibiting a belief and attitude of _______________________________________________
Is your completed sentence boxing you in or bringing you out?
Go a step further. Complete each of the following sentences.
I will engage my soul by _______________________________.
I will engage my mind by ______________________________.
I will use my time and actions to _________________________
In my life, I will _____________________________________
in order to ________________________________________.
We need to live the right life sentence. We need to stop living an imprisoned life; too many are there already.
We need to live a sentence filled with active verbs, aligning our soul and mind to our actions.
Get rid of the boxes. Open up your spirit and mind, and do the work that produces real life meaning.
How do you open your life up to a complete, meaningful sentence? How does your life sentence read?