In this moment, I close my eyes and think about peace. My mind weaves together different thoughts that drop out: Peace is a home where there is laughter, cuddling, and quiet moments of just feeling good about all that is around. Peace is getting lost in the lyrics of song. Peace is teenagers who do [...]
Why Having Thick Skin Is Essential
by Jon Mertz on January 24, 2012 in Re: Lead
“Get thicker skin!” “She/he must have thicker skin.” We hear these statements, and what rings through our mind is “toughen up.” There is truth in this thought. We do need to have thick skin in our life. Many things come at us – Making ends meet Surviving annual reviews Being told you are not good [...]
Spite or Solve: A Choice
by Jon Mertz on January 19, 2012 in Choices Explored
Arguments happen every day. Heated conversations take place all the time. Disagreements come into light between honorable people. Life is contentious at times. What do we do? Do we fight to the bitter end? Do we use unflattering names? Do we stall or filibuster until we get our way? Do we let problems fester until [...]
Hot Pursuit. On Cheetahs, Discernment and Leadership.
by Guest on January 16, 2012 in Re: Lead
As I began to read Mike Myatt’s recent post in Forbes, I was attracted to the image of the cheetah. Issued at year end, amidst a ream of top ten lists and related assessments, the cheetah stood out for its focused energy, and even more so for its extraordinary speed. The leadership quality Myatt discussed, [...]
Get a Pair: Buy Khakis or Live Boldly
by Jon Mertz on January 11, 2012 in Choices Explored
I drive by this billboard almost every day. Get a Pair. The first time I drove past it, my marketing brain went to work, and my thought was “what a bad ad.” If I liked the khakis, I did not know the brand nor could I read where I could buy a pair. My conclusion [...]
Connect Now: Real Community
by Jon Mertz on January 4, 2012 in Everyday Life
Every community has good things and bad. Some people may dominate. Some voices may be lost or, worse, unheard. Everything may look imperfect. Some things may look too perfect. It is no different in social media communities. Two years ago, Twitter saved my life. This sounds dramatic, I know, yet there is a kernel of [...]
2011: Top 10 Most Read Posts
by Jon Mertz on December 29, 2011 in Everyday Life
Yesterday, I highlighted my least read posts that were written in 2011, so it is only fair to highlight the most read ones, too! Each of the posts outlined below were written in 2011 and received the highest traffic, according to Google Analytics. Here is the list of the most read posts of 2011: What [...]
2011: My Top 10 Least Read Posts
by Jon Mertz on December 28, 2011 in Everyday Life
As we look back, we evaluate things that went wrong as well as the things that went right. Writing is no different, so I went back and looked at what my top 10 least read posts were. Here they are for all to ignore… again! 1. The Meaning of the Middle Series: A Wrap – [...]
Your Intangible Presence of Living
by Jon Mertz on December 21, 2011 in Re: Lead
We focus on tangibles. Partly due to the fact, I believe, we can touch them, grab of hold of them, or point to them. The tangibles become a part of our persona. With our iPhones®, iPads®, or other devices, our personal brand begins to assume the characteristics of that item. We identify ourselves with what [...]
What Happens When the Pause Button Is Hit on Your Life?
by Jon Mertz on December 13, 2011 in Everyday Life
Our life has some momentum. The direction and intensity of the motion will vary by person, but we are people on the move. We choose. We act. We defer. So, what happens when the big “Pause” button is hit? This question has been jingling in my mind since my brother’s accident, and it kindled again [...]
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